Reine Duell Bethany: Posted on Thursday, April 6, 2017 1:32 PM
I have just read a lengthy qualitative study of 50 African American male teen gang members. Eleven of the 50, while not denying their membership in their gangs, nonetheless stopped gang-related activity to continue their education, with future career goals in mind. The other 39 did not do so. They did not spend time studying, but spent a lot of time watching television and playing video games (both of which are activities that I call "zoning," which temporarily numb inward pain but never resolve it). |
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Reine Duell Bethany: Posted on Wednesday, June 22, 2016 8:55 AM
Last night (Tuesday, June 21), I attended the regular bimonthly Hempstead Village Board of Trustees meeting. In the public hearing portion of the meeting, discussion arose concerning the parking lot next to (not the ones behind) Village Hall, which was deeded to the developer for the upcoming Hempstead Revitalization (Don Monti). Monti paid nothing for the lot. Currently the village is still using it and drawing revenue from whoever parks in it, and also the village is expending $244,000 to repair the lot. |
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Reine Duell Bethany: Posted on Monday, June 13, 2016 9:50 AM
I am praying for everyone in the Orlando tragedy (on June 12, 2016, Omar Mateen murdered 49 people in the Orlando gay club Pulse and wounded 53 others before killing himself; he identified himself with the Islamic State shortly before he did so). Despite the gunman's personal journey toward identifying with the Islamic State, I don't really think his actions had any more to do with homosexuals or religion than Adam Lanza's had to do with first graders and their teachers when he murdered 26 of them at Newton, CT in December 2012, or the shooter's in Aurora, CO who targeted theater-goers in a movie theater, or the young man's in 2007 when he killed 32 students and teachers at Virginia Tech. |
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Reine Duell Bethany: Posted on Monday, May 16, 2016 7:53 AM
In the Gospel of John, chapter 11, Jesus raises Lazarus from the dead. This one event -- the resurrection of Lazarus -- enacts a repeating phenomenon: the meaning of the event is obscured by the imposition of people's desires. When Jesus arrived at the village of Bethany, he knew that Lazarus had died. He had received notice that Lazarus was deathly ill four days before. When the four days ahsd passed, he point-blank told his disciples that Lazarus was dead and that this death would result in glory for God. |
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Reine Duell Bethany: Posted on Saturday, April 30, 2016 5:52 AM
Heaven never left the earth Because God cannot leave himself. May my every look and breath  Show he's here and hasn't left. Choosing evil feels so free, But only proves that God's not me. I'll make you know me by shouting and shoving. I can't make God known except by loving.
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Reine Duell Bethany: Posted on Friday, April 1, 2016 5:30 AM
Easter has just passed. We celebrate the resurrection of Jesus from the dead. The eternal life of the human soul has been affirmed. I do believe that our souls are eternal. We will all spend eternity in either heaven or hell.
How do we know whether we will go to heaven or to hell? The amount of theological ink spilled on this question, if collected in one location, would need a hollow planet to contain it all.
I don't worry about this question anymore. |
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Reine Duell Bethany: Posted on Wednesday, March 9, 2016 10:45 AM
I've been reading J. R. H. Moorman's 1980 book,A History of the Church in England. Seriously, whatreallyhappened to the church in England? Via this book and other sources, I have discovered that the most important thing about Henry VIII wasnotthat he had six wives, two of whom he beheaded. To me, the most important aspect of his reign was his break from the Roman Catholic Church, and his assertion that he alone was head of the Church in England. This presumption of spiritual authority had a comprehensive fallout for daily life in England. |
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Reine Duell Bethany: Posted on Saturday, February 20, 2016 11:51 AM
A Monday, February 15 article inNewsday, the major Long Island Newspaper, details a program run by a youth court in Central Islip. The article is titled "Do the Right Thing." Thia youth court initiative is overseen by New York State Supremem Court Justice Fernando Camacho. To quote from the article, "It is a program designed to divert teens who commit felonies from a life shuttling between crime and punishment." The program succeeds because the young people who enter it aren't viewed as low-lifes. |
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Reine Duell Bethany: Posted on Tuesday, February 9, 2016 12:03 PM
Every person has the sense that he or she possesses something, that possessions (tangible or intangible) can be taken away, and that retaining possessions requires active self-defense. If a child isnottrained to (1) keep what he or she legitimately has and (2) allow others to keep what they legitimately have, then the child is training for gang life.
Parents who are immature will take away a child's possessions for their own use. Such parents also take away a child's self-development time. |
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Reine Duell Bethany: Posted on Thursday, January 14, 2016 4:56 PM
Of all the internal dangers we humans experience day to day, I think the most threatening is a sense of personal failure. We can endure losses and injuries, but we can't endure the feeling that our best efforts to do something important with our lives will always crash, or that others can do things and we can't. Parents may believe that their responsibilities to their children include only safety, nourishment, shelter, clothing, and instilling respect for authority. |
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